John M. Becker Jr.

A candle was lit by Gil and Teresa Haack on November 5, 2017 1:10 PM

A candle was lit by Barb Quandt on October 17, 2017 12:24 PM

Message from Barb (Puls) Quandt

I am so sad to learn of Johnnie Mike's passage to heaven. While I am sure he is rewarded there for all the wonderful things he did in his too short life, we will always miss him and his extra efforts to connect to family when he could. He was loved by so many. He was a pallbearer for my Mom just such a short time ago and was so great and helpful to us at that time. I extend my most sincere sympathy to all of his family. May God help you all through this time of sorrow and loss.
Barb Quandt, cousin

Message from Sandy and Tim Meekma

Our sympathies to you, Jean, and your daughters. We are sorry we were unable to attend “Johnny-Mike’s” memorial service as we have been at our son’s in Illinois.
Mike was special to my mom Kate. She had chosen him to be a pallbearer for her many years ago. Mike was one of her nephews who came to visit her just before she went to Heaven. I know she felt his love. He even brought some of his special colored eggs for Tim. He was so proud of his farmette and his chickens and animals.

Mike loved his entire flock of cousins, aunts and uncles. Mike truly was a special guy.

I will always remember your beautiful wedding. His love for you and his daughters will live on in your hearts.

A candle was lit by Abigail Shaw on October 15, 2017 9:05 PM

Message from Aimee Schmidt

I am a former student of Mr. Becker. I had him for Honors English my sophomore year of high school in 1995. I missed a lot of classes that year due to some medical emergencies. Mr. Becker was the only teacher that decided I missed to many classes and he gave me an incomplete and made me take summer school with him. During summer school, Mr. Becker told me how much he appreciated that I did all of the work to my fullest potential and did not just skate by like most of the students in summer school. He told me that he was proud of my work ethic and that the reason he would not let me have credit during the year was because I was too smart not to get the chance to learn all of the material. He gave me extra assignments in summer school and made sure I was ready because at the end of the summer not only did he give me an A, he signed the paper for me to take Honors English my junior year and he told me I belonged there. I will never forget how he pushed me, gave me self-confidence, and cared enough NOT to just pass me on. He wanted to teach me!

Message from Meg Graham

John was an inspiration to students and colleagues and a friend to everyone! His warm stories and big grin touched hearts! He is gone too soon and will be missed by so many!

Message from Solana Morris

I had Mr. Becker for American Literature in 10th grade. He is the reason I became a very good writer and was able to write essays that helped me earn 21 different scholarships for college and graduate with no debt. He had very high expectations for me in his class, and I rose to them. Thanks, Mr. Becker, and thanks to his family for sharing him with all of us students! I will always remember you.

A candle was lit by Kenny Sylvester on October 14, 2017 6:14 PM

Message from Joyce Duffy

Sending my condolences to the Michael Becker family. I have known Mike for a long time as he was a classmate of my son, Dan. To his sisters and brother who all attended DHS while I Was the school secretary. So glad I had a chance to talk to him at a summer party. Lots of memories.

Message from Dan Duffy

John was a good friend for the past 56 years. We went to the same school for 16 years (including college)!.

He will be missed.

Message from Julie and Ed Majkowski

Oh Jean and family,
We are thinking of you and praying for you all. You are on our minds and in our hearts as you grieve the loss of your husband, father and all that goes with it. Greg and Carla will do an excellent job for you. They are great. I know tomorrow and the next will be especially hard and draining. Prayers that people rally around you and comfort you in these hard times. Sending love and hugs. Julie and Ed Majkowski

Message from Mark & Nancy Becker

Our deepest sympathy to Jean, Jennifer and Jesikah. My cousin and best friend will be deeply missed. He was a special man and friend. May he rest in the arms of God. Praying for all of you.

A candle was lit by Mark & Nancy Becker on October 14, 2017 9:41 AM

Message from Julie Hanisch

Teaching across the hall from John Becker for the first five years of my career was one of my biggest fortunes as a beginning teacher 22 years ago. John had a way of blending high expectations with humor, and I always felt his ability to see the nuances of humanity in real life and in literature was honed, genuine, and keen. I will never forget our after school chats or the time that we got together with Sue Schneidler to learn how to play Sheepshead. Sue kept saying he wasn't explaining it right and he kept on talking about something like schmearing that by the time we were halfway through, I was laughing more than learning the game.

John, we know you raged against the dying of the light as hard as you could. I'm still stunned you are gone, but may the angels hear you read poetry as you plan the next heavenly basketball game up there. I'm privileged, so very much, to have known you.

A candle was lit by Julie Hanisch on October 13, 2017 9:19 PM

Message from Chuck Harder

John, Rudy Will, and myself coached together, did lunch duty when nobody wanted to do it, and overnight duty (seniors last day). My last years of coaching were with John. I really don't know what to say. I will miss you John. Would love to go to the horse races with you again.

Message from Eileen Semple

I was so saddened to hear about Mike. Saw him this summer at Bob Nelson's house. So glad I got to spend time with him. Sending prayers to all of you! 🙏

A candle was lit by Eileen Semple on October 13, 2017 5:06 PM

Message from Doug Wojtczak

My condolences to the Becker family. Mr. Becker was one of my teachers in Highschool. He always made class fun and challenged us to strive for more. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. Way too young to go! All my best, Doug Wojtczak

A candle was lit by Nick Lenski on October 13, 2017 2:44 PM

A candle was lit by Russ Buhr on October 13, 2017 2:13 PM

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My deepest sympathy for your loss. He was a great friend of our family.

Message from Peter & Peggy Harris

We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Mike was a very special person inside and out. He brought a lot of happiness to those around him. It's hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing he was a special part of a well-lived life. When the Lord calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange. Hold on to your memories, and let them guide you during this time of sadness. Memories are the legacy of love. Sincerely, Peter & Peggy Harris

A candle was lit by Mark and Nancy Becker on October 13, 2017 1:49 PM

Message from Nick A Hughes

I had the great pleasure of coaching football and track with John in Mukwonago. As a new teacher and coach, he was immensely helpful, insightful and inspirational to me. Coaching freshmen football was an amazing experience and one I will never forget because of the impact he had on me and our players.

Message from Jane Elbe

Jean, I was saddened to read that your husband has passed. And at such a young age. I worked with Sandy at Lang and met you a few times. John painted our house for us one summer many years ago. My heart aches for you and your girls and I can't imagine your heartache. John (I believe he had a nickname) is happy and healthy with his Savior in heaven, but you are left with broken hearts and a very long and difficult journey through your grief. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. With my heartfelt condolences, Jane Elbe